The pork leg is the long pole, so build everything around it. Thaw it 2–3 days ahead and rub it the night before. Start its low-and-slow oven cook in the morning so it's ready to finish over charcoal at dinnertime — light the coals about 45 minutes before you carve. While the pork roasts, get the Cowboy Beans going: skim the rendered fat and dark drippings from the pork pan and use them to start the beans, then let them simmer for hours on the back of the stove (or the cool side of the grill). Save the cornbread for last — mix the batter while the pork rests after its charcoal finish, and bake it in a screaming-hot cast iron so it lands on the table fresh and steaming just as you carve. The chipotle hot sauce and garlic honey are both make-ahead condiments for the sauce bar — the honey needs at least a week fermenting on the counter, so start it early.